aadarsh jivan-sathi ke aath gun
ab jabaki do do logon ne mujhe apana shikar banaya hai, saubhagy se uname se ek mahila hai, to mera ye farj banata hai ki apana javab doon. isake pahale ki aap kuchh galat salat samajhen mai aapako bata doon, ki mai is ashtavali khela kee bat kar raha hoon. is khela me koee ek blogar kisi ek vishay ke bare me likhata hai, aur fir kinhi aath blogaron ko pakadata hai jo us vishay par likhate hain. fir ye nirantar khela chalata rahata hai, tab tak jab tak pathak tippani kar kar ke, is khela ko band karane ya sabjekt badalane ke liye na kah den. vaise dekha jay to ye khela kuchh kuchh hamare anugoonj kee tarah se hai, bas farak sirf itana hai ki yahan aath ka pahad chalata hai, yani ki us vishay par aath pvaint me likhana hai aur oopar se aath aur logon ko topi (shikar banana) pahanani padati hai. to janab is bar ka vishay hai aapake apane (athava bhavi) jivanasathi me kaun si aath khoobiyan honi chahiye.
ab ye prashn poochha hi kyon gaya. hamane khoj kee to paya ki prashn poochhane vali kee tamanna koee maitarimoniyal sait banane kee hai, shayad prashn ka aaidiya bhi vanhi se aaya hai, ya fir prashn poochhane vala aath sambhavit logon se prashn poochhakar apani pasand ka vara/vadhu chun lega. lekin saval ye uthata hai ki ham budde logon se ye prashn kahe poochha gaya. mirja ne samajhaya, abe ye to tumhare eksapiriyans ko sheyar karana chahata hai.ya fir tumhare man kee bhads nikalavana chahate hai,isaliye tumase bhi poochh liya. ab aapane hamari dukhati rag chhed hi di hai to jhelo aap bhi. to bhaee hamare jivanasathi (yahan not kiya jay ki ham bhavi shabd ka prayog nahi kar rahe, aap logo kee shraridda ho to jarur laga lijiyega) nimnalikhit gunon ka hona aavashyak hai:
- sabase pahale to use sasta,sundar aur tikaoo hona chahiye. (ye sunakar mirja baola, abe jivanasathi pasand kar rahe ho ya tivi set, ab mirja ko kaun samajhaye, tivi aur jivanasathi me jyada farak nahi hota)
- hansamukh,milanasar,samajhadar aur vicharashil ho. (ab mirja kahate hai ki jisake pas aakhiri ke dono gun honge to koee tumhare pas kyon kar fatakega?, ab mirja ko kaun javab de.
- sahanashil hona bahut jaruri hai (tabhi to hame aur hamare blog ko jhel sakegi, hai ki nahi)
- sundar,sushil aur sanskari ho ( ab shukul in sabake matalab mat poochhane lag padana, kisi vaibasait se mare the)
- mahatvakankshaee aur svavalambi ho (svavalambi ka matalab, isase mat lagaya jay ki guradvare se khana khakar aaye aur hamare liye leti huee aaye. matalab svatantratapoorvak apana kary kar sake, batharum me vaipar lagane ke liye hame na pukara jay)
- tivi dekhane ka shaunk na ho. (nahi to hamare kriket maich aur nyooj chainalon ka to nambar hi nahi aa sakega) ya fir tivi dekhane me hamare aur unake shaunk kaman hon.
- haili romantik ho, romans jo umar ke sath sath badhata jay (ab hamase is mudde par eksapleneshan kee ummid na rakhi jay)
- aur antim magar bahut hi mahatvapoorn ki mujh par poornaroopen bharosa karati ho. aapasi vishvas hi vaivahik jivan ka aadhar hota hai.
aakhiri me ek jaruri soochana : uparokt sare gun hamari patnishraee me hai, isaliye hamare jivan me bhavi jivanasathi kee koee vaikensi nahi hai.alabatta hame yad aa raha hai ek trak ke pichhe likha tha jagah milane par pas diya jayega.
ab hamare shikar (kise banayen? sare shikar to pratyakshaaa kha gayi, fir bhi koshish karata hoon)
- atul arora ( ab bhi agar tum na likhoge to samajh lena, ham sachamuch me naraj ho jayenge.)
- shukul ( tumako to likhana hi padega, kauno bahana nahi chalega)
- debashish dada (bahut dino se kuchh likhe nahi ho, chalo yanhi se shuru karo)
- aalok bhaee ( hindi blogajagat ke pitamah.inake chitthe dekhakar aapako lagega ka inaka aaeeesapi, prati shabd hosting ke paise leta hai.ye dekhane ka vishay hoga ki guruji ka teligramiya lekh kaisa hoga)
- ravi ratalami ji ( ye ratalam me rahane ke karan hamare bahut karibi rishtedar hain, poori katha yahan dekhen)
- raman kaul
- sunil bhaee
- thaluaa naresh indr ji (ab agar na likhoge to samajh lena tumhara aanalain aana doobhar kar denge)
- shashi bhaee ( ye to bechare na likhakar parampara ka nirvah kar rahen hai,inhone is sal ka indiblogij puraskar jita hai
- kalicharan (tum lekh likhoge to makan jaldi milega, nahi to barah bajati rahegi, fir mat kahana)
- bakee bache sathi, jinako shikar na banaya gaya ho
to bhaiya ab ham chalate hai, isase pahale ki shraeemati ji naraj hoyen ham nikalate hai, achchha namaskar. likhate rahiye, aage badhate rahiye. tippani karana mat bhooliyega.
aap inhe bhi pasand karenge
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disambar 9, 2012 -- yadi aap ye na hote to kya hote? (3)
faravari 24, 2011 -- bloging ka dushman : tvitar? (16)- faravari 13, 2012 -- vishv rediyo divas par vishesh (8)
- march 27, 2011 -- kuvait me dhool kee sunami (6)
march 14, 2013 -- do mobail ka chakkar…. (9)
sitambar 29, 2011 -- nae blogar ke lie vishesh (10)
kyon miyan bachhon ko bhool gaye, sahi line maare ho “anmol vachan me daal ho” randomly dikhte rahenge.
Gurudev netagiri suru karo do last me bibi ka naam lekar reha seha shaq (agar bhabhiji ke dimag me kuch hua to) bhi door kar diya.
aur ek bat aur, aapako do nahin tin logon ne bamay aapake aapako topi pahanaee; pahale mainne, fir pratyakshaaa ji ne aur fir aashish bhaee ne!!
badhiya likha hai
pratyakshaaa
bahut achchhi baten likhin aapane. buzurgon kee galatiyon se sikhane ka mauka mil raha hai. vaise aapane *conditions apply stail men disklemar de kar siddh kar diya ki vivahoparant sher bhi bhigi billi ban jata hai
Maine pahali bar pada hai
jivan sathi k 8 gun achchha laga
Narendra Singh
A-Age means ladke aur ladki mein jyada age difference nahi hona chahiye.
B-Beuti dono ka ek jaisa hona chahiye.
C-charactor-achha hona chahiye.
D- Douri(Dahej) nahi lene dena chahiye.
E-Education Dono ka equel hona chahiye.
F- Family. dono ki samajhdar honi chahiye.
likhte rhna……..