yah praveen paandey kee budhavaasareey atithi post hai. ek saamaany ghareloo sthiti se darshan men kaise utaraa jaataa hai, vah praveen se seekhane yogy hai:
bachchon kee pareekshaayen samaapt huyeen aur ghar ke vaataavaran kaa utsaveekaran ho gayaa. ab yuddhakshetr se laute vijayee (lagataa to hai) yoddhaaon ko upahaar chaahiye. nishchay huaa ki pahale vasudhaiv kutumbakam ko charitraarth karate huye domino(amerikan) men pijjaa(iteliyan) binaa chhuree-kaantaa(bhaarateey) udaayaa jaayegaa. yahaan par chhuree-kaante kaa jujhaaru upayog dekhakar yaa kost kating ke chalate yah suvidhaa domino ne hataa lee hai.
baabaa raamadev jee kaa samuchit sammaan ghar men hai par maah men ek din hamaaree soch vaishvik star kee ho jaatee hai.
hamaare aadhe se adhik dukhon kaa kaaran vikalpon kee upasthiti hee hai. is naheen, us naukaree men hote, kaash vivaah n karate yaa karate to...... achchhe nirnay lene ke liye jnyaan chaahiye, anubhav chaahiye, samay kaal kee pahachaan chaahiye, uchit paraamarsh chaahiye, nishkapat paraamarshadaataa chaahiye, bhale-bure kee pahachaan chaahiye. itanaa sab ho to ham devatv ko praapt ho jaayenge.
triptamanaa bachche jab baahar nikale to lagaa ki apane aane kaa praathamik uddeshy bhool gaye honge aur ham ghar kee or chal diye. par hamaaree aakalit prasannataa 5 minateey hee rahee. "khilaune" sahasaa uthee bitiyaa kee cheekh hamaaree chaturataa aur chhalanaatmak pravritti ko taar taar karatee huyee hriday men samaa gayee aur ham dasharatheey glaani bhaav se peedit ho svayn ko ab raamabharose maan kar chupachaap khilaunon kee badee see dukaan pahunch gaye.
yah achchhee baat thee ki bahut dinon se khilaunon se door rahane se unakaa saamaany jnyaan is vishay men apadeted naheen thaa. yah samay paryaapt thaa samhalane ke liye aur ham bhee binaa maange hee is vishay par paraamarsh dete huye apane ragad khaaye impreshan ko sudhaarane men lag gaye. bitiyaa saadee pahanee baarbee se sntusht ho gayee. baalak ke liye paraamarsh prakriyaa kee paraniti do khilaunon par huyee. jab bhee vikalp kee sthiti ho to paraamarsh men jnyaan kee adhikataa nishkarsh tak pahunchane men sahaayak hotee hai. yah soch kar baalak ke anubhavajany jnyaan ko apane pustakeey jnyaan se laad diye. baalak kinkartavyavimoodh ho antath nirnay kaa adhikaar hamen de baithaa.
khilaunaa ghar aa gayaa, baalak prasann bhee hai par vikalp kaa yah roop chintan prakriyaa chhed gayaa.
vikalp todtaa hai. vikalp kee sthiti men aap nirnay lene ke liye baadhy honge. nirnay yadi theek naheen huye to man men kaheen n kaheen gaharee tees chhod jaayenge. bhavishy kisane dekhaa hai par nirnay to vartamaan men lenaa hotaa hai. kitanaa hee achchhaa hotaa ki jeevan men kaheen koee vikalp hee n hotaa. nirnayon kee peedaa aatmaa ko kachotatee n rahatee. hamaare aadhe se adhik dukhon kaa kaaran vikalpon kee upasthiti hee hai. is naheen, us naukaree men hote, kaash vivaah n karate yaa karate to...... achchhe nirnay lene ke liye jnyaan chaahiye, anubhav chaahiye, samay kaal kee pahachaan chaahiye, uchit paraamarsh chaahiye, nishkapat paraamarshadaataa chaahiye, bhale-bure kee pahachaan chaahiye. itanaa sab ho to ham devatv ko praapt ho jaayenge.
nirnay kee suvidhaa maanaveey star par eeshvaratv kaa ansh hai. ped aur pashuon kee yah suvidhaa yaa to naheen dee gayee hai yaa bahut hee seemit hai. yah maanaveey visheshaadhikaar hai. jahaan eeshvar ne nirnay lene kaa adhikaar diyaa hai vaheen duniyaa ko aise vikalpon se bhar diyaa hai jo aapake nirnayon kee samuchit pareekshaa lete rahenge.
ath eeshvar rachit, vikalpon se bharee duniyaa men nirnay-nirnay kaa khel kheliye . yadi khel bigad jaaye to khel samajhakar bhool jaaiye. par khelate rahiye, khelanaa seekhate rahiye aur maanaveey adhikaaron kaa aanand uthaate rahiye.
praveen bhaaee,
ReplyDeleteapane vartamaan kee tathaakathit takaleefon aur aksar ateet kee kinhee vivashataaon ke sndarbh men yoon hee sochataa hoon, jaisaa aapane bayaan kiyaa. bas, tarateeb aur silasilaa aapakaa behatar rahaa. yoon hee to kaabil naheen ho jaataa.
sachchee sachchee, achchhee achchhee post. vikalpaheenataa kee avadhaaranaa bhaa gaee.
jnyaanadaa kee jai men aapakee bhee jaikaar hai:)
badhiyaan praveen jee -kaash doosaree blog poston kaa vikalp n hotaa to ham thodaa aur ramate yahaan !
ReplyDeletejay ho! nirnay-nirnay kaa khel khelaa jaa rahaa hai.
ReplyDelete"hamaare aadhe se adhik dukhon kaa kaaran vikalpon kee upasthiti hee hai. is naheen, us naukaree men hote, kaash vivaah n karate yaa karate to......"
ReplyDeletehaay! 'jeevan kee traasadee' yahee to hai.
gam-e-hastee kaa ’asad’ kis se ho juz marg ilaaj
shammaa har rng men jalatee hai sahar hone tak
hamaare aadhe se adhik dukhon kaa kaaran vikalpon kee upasthiti hee hai
ReplyDelete-aap umr ke pahale hee adhyaatamik hue jaa rahe hain. yah sngat kaa asar hai. abhee bhee vakt hai ki sngat chhode aur atithiy post ke badale apanaa blog banaa leven. hamen to aanaa hee hai.
vahaan hamaaraa saath rahegaa...yng janareshan toogedar..to aise bhaav pareshaan n karenge. sach kahataa hoon.. :)
@ Udan Tashtari - yng janareshan toogedar..
ReplyDeletehunh! ek tho mirar bhejoon kyaa vheepeepee se kanaadde! :)
kaash!! mirar javaan dil dikhaa paataa!!! :)
ReplyDeleteyaheen to fel hai vo..
"achchhe nirnay lene ke liye jnyaan chaahiye, anubhav chaahiye, samay kaal kee pahachaan chaahiye, uchit paraamarsh chaahiye, nishkapat paraamarshadaataa chaahiye, bhale-bure kee pahachaan chaahiye. itanaa sab ho to ham devatv ko praapt ho jaayenge"
ReplyDeletegoldan vaaky praveen jee ! nateejaa -galat nirnay ke kaaran kashton ke saath jeenaa hee jeevan hai, magar bevakoofiyaan sveekaarane men kasht ...yah gutthee naheen sulajhatee ...
shubhakaamanaayen !
vikalp kahaan hain?
ReplyDeleteyadi vikalp hain, to ham men se adhikaansh niyativaadee kyon hain?
@ dinesharaay dvivedee > vikalp kahaan hain?
ReplyDeleteasal men dukh hai. usakaa kaaran talaashanaa hotaa hai. vikalpaheenataa ek kaaran hai. vikalp honaa doosaraa kaaran hai. vikalp talaashane kee prakriyaa teesaraa kaaran hai.
vikalp rahit dukh se vikalp sahit dukh behatar hai.
haan, vikalp talaashane kee prakriyaa kabhee kabhee bahut rochak hotee hai. Pure out of box thinking!
@ dinesharaay dvivedee > vikalp kahaan hain?
ReplyDeleteham jahaan tak pahunche hai jeevan men, kaee chauraahe paar kiye hain vikalpon ke . nirnayon kee lambee shrnkhalaa hai hamaare vigat jeevan kee . yadi samprati vikalpaheenataa kee sthiti hai to vah bhee hamaare nirnayon kaa nishkarsh hai .
yah alag baat hai ki nirnay prakriyaa men hamane apanaa yogadaan kitanaa diyaa hai . nirnay lene men hamane badon badon ko achakachaate dekhaa hai . apane nirnay kaa adhikaar auron ke dene se man kee glaani kam ho jaatee hai . poornath bhagavaan ko dene kee paraakaashthaa hee bhakti hai ?
pijjaa(iteliyan) binaa chhuree-kaantaa(bhaarateey) udaayaa jaayegaa.
ReplyDeletemaanyavar jahaan tak bande ko jnyaat hai, pitjaa yun hee binaa chhuree-kaantaa khaayaa jaataa hai.
aur bhaarateey bhng naheen hotee kyonki kisee cheej kaa samaavesh hone aur atikraman hone men fark hai.
mujhe hameshaa hee chuhal soojhatee rahatee hai, falasafe kee baaton par to aur zyaadaa. iseelie itanaa kahakar nikal rahaa hoon ki "badhiyaa" "naais" vagairah…vagairah
ReplyDelete@ praveen paandey > apane nirnay kaa adhikaar auron ke dene se man kee glaani kam ho jaatee hai . poornath bhagavaan ko dene kee paraakaashthaa hee bhakti hai ?
ReplyDeletesunaa hai sntaa sinh bhee vaahe guru se isee bhakti ke aadhaar par yaachanaa kar rahaa thaa. aur vaahe guru ne bhavishyavaanee ke maarfat kahaa thaa - o bevakoof puttar, pahale laataree kaa tikat to khareed!
ye bhakti vaalaa root lene par bhagavaan aapako vikalp sujhaane aur us aadhaar par aapako kaam men thelane kaa hee kaam karate hain!
aksar doosaron ke nirnay men dimaag achchhaa chalataa hai. koee salaah maang kar to dekhe :)
ReplyDeletelekin apane maamale men dimaag sochataa hee rah jaataa hai... jo nirnay jitanaa prabhaavit kar sakataa hai utanaa hee pareshaan karataa hai.
@ snjay bengaanee
ReplyDeletemaanyavar jahaan tak bande ko jnyaat hai, pitjaa yun hee binaa chhuree-kaantaa khaayaa jaataa hai .
pahale bataa diye hote . kaahe ham ek pijjaa khaane ke chakkar men saikadon ghaav plet ko diye hote .
another option....
ReplyDeleteLive in moments !
Everything becomes history with each passing moment. So One should not brood over past.
Be happy for the right decisions and laugh out loud for the wrong ones !
praveen jee,aapake shailee ke to ham kaayal hain..
ReplyDeletejab vikalp naheen hote tab bhee ham pareshaan hee hote hain aur jab vikalp bahut jyaadaa ho tab bhee..
aap tren kee ek bogee men chadhate hain jahaan pair rakhane ko bhee jagah naheen hai.. koee vikalp naheen.. aap kanfyooj hote hain..
aap tren kee ek bogee men chadhate hain jo pooree khaalee hai, vikalp hee vikalp.. aap tab bhee sochate hain kee kis jagah baithane se aapako saare aaraam milane vaale hain...
ek pyaaree see ghatanaa hai..sheyar karanaa chaahoongaa..-
"main, meraa dost aur usakee 5 saal kee bhateejee usake ghar ke aas paas hee ghoom rahe the aur bachachee ne galatee se galat raastaa pakad liyaa.. mainne rokaa to mere dost ne bolaa ise khud dhoondhane de n, khud dhoondhengee to ise hameshaa yaad rahegaa|"
kaafee vikalpon se nirnay-nirnay khelate hue usane ghar dhoondh hee liyaa..
aautaluk kaa ek speshal edishan thaa 'vhaat if?' bhaarateey itihaas kee kaafee ghatanaao ko is dhng se dekhaa gayaa thaa kee agar vo kuchh aur dhng se ghatit hotee to aaj kyaa hotaa| jaroor padhiyegaa...
kabhee mainne bhee apanee jindagee ke kuchh nirnayon ko isee tareeke se dekhaa thaa.. haan lekin aap jaisee shailee naheen thee :)
tipiyaane kaa nirnay le kar apane maanaveey adhikaar kaa aannd uthaa rahe hain.
ReplyDeletevikalpon se pareshaanee badhatee hai - satyavachan.
ReplyDeleteab teevee par hee dekhiye. pahale jab keval dooradarshan thaa, tab krishidarshan bhee chitrahaar kaa majaa detaa thaa....ab itane saare chainal ho gaye hain, itane saare vaahiyaat prograam dikhaa rahe hain ki ab fir krishidarshan kaa svaad yaad aa rahaa hai :)
aalekh sndesh detaa hai ki jeevan ke vikalp vaale muddon par jaraa see bhool jindagee bhar kee sajaa kaa kaaran ban sakatee hai . ath vikalpon par sajag aur gnbheer rahanaa behad jarooree hai .
ReplyDeletejay ho -badhiyaa chal rahaa hai.
ReplyDeletekaash vivaah n karate yaa karate to..... to sochate kaash vivaah hee kar lete.... bahut sundar jee, pijje ke chakkar mai ham to chup hee rahe... jese bhee khaanaa khaao
ReplyDeletevikalp keval vyaakaran men hee rah gae hain. baakee to sab vikalp kaa bhram hee hai aur sukhad jeevan jeene ke lie bhram aavashyak hai. bhram kaa koee vikalp naheen.
ReplyDeletesochne ko bahut kuchh de gai aapki yah post,
ReplyDeletejaise ki pahle to yahi ki vivah kare ya nahi, isi mudde pe latke rahein.....
;)
@ khilaunaa ghar aa gayaa, baalak prasann bhee hai par vikalp kaa yah roop chintan prakriyaa chhed gayaa.
ReplyDelete.............. yahee bachapan hee badhiyaan hai ..
'' hamen dimaag kahaan husn ke takaaje kaa '' !
bachapan hee badhiyaan ...... kyon n isee ko pasaar diyaa jaay taaumr !
vikalp hee niyati yaa bhaagy ke oopar karm ko pradhaanataa dilaate hain. vikalp kaa chunaav karane ke lie hee jnyaan, vivek, buddhi sab upaadaan hain parantu antim aur pratham hai aasthaa. jaisee aasthaa, jaisee nishthaa, vaisee hee baat samajh men aatee hai,any ko ham chaahate hue bhee sveekaarate naheen, bhale hee spasht nakaar bhee n ho.
ReplyDeleteyah aur baat hai ki bahut se chhote-chhote aaj ke vikalp kinheen pahale chune gae vikalpon kee svaabhaavik tarkapoorn parinati maatr lagate hain.
achchhaa hai is shrrinkhalaa kaa vikalpon ke roop men svaadheen soch bakhshanaa…
lage rahie…
mujhe to lagataa hai vikalpon kee adhikataa duvidhaa asuvidhaa hee adhik detee hai...
ReplyDeletevikalpon kee adhikataa duvidhaa aur asuvidhaa hee adhik detee hai ...
ReplyDeleteaise samay men jab ki blogajagat liv in rileshanaship par vichaaron kaa akhaadaa banaa huaa hai ...ek bahut hee sulajhaa huaa javaab hai ...
@ amarendr kee tippanee bhee gaur karane laayak hai ...
indr kumaar jee kee ee-mel se praapt tippanee -
ReplyDeletevikalp ke aate hee snkalp ek baar to hil hee jaataa hai....... aapane bete ko decision naheen lene diyaa shaayad apanee paaket kee vajah se. khair ghabaraae naheen abhee to pareekshaa khtm huee hai rijalt ke baad ke lie bhee taiyaar rahiye :-))
hammm....
ReplyDeletevikalp !!
main idhar jaaoon yaa udhar jaaoon..
badee mushkil men hoon main kidhar jaaoon...?
vikalpon kee adhikataa duvidhaa asuvidhaa hee adhik detee hai...
vikalp hee niyati yaa bhaagy ke oopar karm ko pradhaanataa dilaate hain. vikalp kaa chunaav karane ke lie hee jnyaan, vivek, buddhi sab upaadaan hain parantu antim aur pratham hai aasthaa. jaisee aasthaa, jaisee nishthaa, vaisee hee baat samajh men aatee hai,any ko ham chaahate hue bhee sveekaarate naheen, bhale hee spasht nakaar bhee n ho.
ReplyDeleteyah aur baat hai ki bahut se chhote-chhote aaj ke vikalp kinheen pahale chune gae vikalpon kee svaabhaavik tarkapoorn parinati maatr lagate hain.
achchhaa hai is shrrinkhalaa kaa vikalpon ke roop men svaadheen soch bakhshanaa…
lage rahie…
@ dinesharaay dvivedee > vikalp kahaan hain?
ReplyDeleteasal men dukh hai. usakaa kaaran talaashanaa hotaa hai. vikalpaheenataa ek kaaran hai. vikalp honaa doosaraa kaaran hai. vikalp talaashane kee prakriyaa teesaraa kaaran hai.
vikalp rahit dukh se vikalp sahit dukh behatar hai.
haan, vikalp talaashane kee prakriyaa kabhee kabhee bahut rochak hotee hai. Pure out of box thinking!
"achchhe nirnay lene ke liye jnyaan chaahiye, anubhav chaahiye, samay kaal kee pahachaan chaahiye, uchit paraamarsh chaahiye, nishkapat paraamarshadaataa chaahiye, bhale-bure kee pahachaan chaahiye. itanaa sab ho to ham devatv ko praapt ho jaayenge"
ReplyDeletegoldan vaaky praveen jee ! nateejaa -galat nirnay ke kaaran kashton ke saath jeenaa hee jeevan hai, magar bevakoofiyaan sveekaarane men kasht ...yah gutthee naheen sulajhatee ...
shubhakaamanaayen !
@ Udan Tashtari - yng janareshan toogedar..
ReplyDeletehunh! ek tho mirar bhejoon kyaa vheepeepee se kanaadde! :)
praveen bhaaee,
ReplyDeleteapane vartamaan kee tathaakathit takaleefon aur aksar ateet kee kinhee vivashataaon ke sndarbh men yoon hee sochataa hoon, jaisaa aapane bayaan kiyaa. bas, tarateeb aur silasilaa aapakaa behatar rahaa. yoon hee to kaabil naheen ho jaataa.
sachchee sachchee, achchhee achchhee post. vikalpaheenataa kee avadhaaranaa bhaa gaee.
jnyaanadaa kee jai men aapakee bhee jaikaar hai:)
@ dinesharaay dvivedee > vikalp kahaan hain?
ReplyDeleteham jahaan tak pahunche hai jeevan men, kaee chauraahe paar kiye hain vikalpon ke . nirnayon kee lambee shrnkhalaa hai hamaare vigat jeevan kee . yadi samprati vikalpaheenataa kee sthiti hai to vah bhee hamaare nirnayon kaa nishkarsh hai .
yah alag baat hai ki nirnay prakriyaa men hamane apanaa yogadaan kitanaa diyaa hai . nirnay lene men hamane badon badon ko achakachaate dekhaa hai . apane nirnay kaa adhikaar auron ke dene se man kee glaani kam ho jaatee hai . poornath bhagavaan ko dene kee paraakaashthaa hee bhakti hai ?